Want the best sex of your life? Few things are more gratifying than seeing your partner look at you in genuine amazement after making her body sing like it’s never sung before (gratifying for you and her, of course). But sometimes, after a gold-medal session, she’s not the only one standing there in amazement at what may have been the best sex ever.
How did I do that? You ask... And can I do it again? Well, here’s the good news: you can. Easily. Even tonight. And there’s no practice required. Just follow these five tips and you’re sure to leave her quivering with pleasure like never before. And give her the best sex of her life. For more tips on how to have the best sex you’ve ever had, discover 25 ways to turn yourself into a sex god.
1 – Talk to her
Of course, you’re looking for elaborate techniques that will shock and impress. But none of that matters if you don’t know her, what she reacts to and, perhaps most importantly, what she can’t stand. Tonight, in a relaxed atmosphere, start a conversation about what she likes. Take mental notes so you can be even better. She wants to be heard, and chances are she’ll give you information you can use.
If she’s scared, encourage her to go into specific areas: does she like to be dominated? What kind of porn does she like? What makes her come? Are there words or images that help her get where she wants to go? What does she dream of doing? Not only will you gather valuable information about how to behave when things get moving, but you’re already stimulating her largest sex organ (her brain) and improving yourself in bed before you even get your hands on each other.
2 – Take more time
Not all women do, but many report that a prolonged session of kissing and groping over clothing can dramatically increase their level of arousal, often indicated by the amount of natural vaginal lubricant she produces. While your unbridled enthusiasm will be appreciated, the best way to get her aroused is to make the pleasure last before your fingers stray between her legs.
If you see her squirming, rubbing her thighs, spreading her legs or simply grabbing your hand and placing it on her crotch, a successful session is practically in the bag. You’re close to having the best sex of the week (at least).
Pro tip: create a great playlist you’ll enjoy and play three normal-length songs at first and second base. As you round third, she’ll wave.
3- Play with the erogenous zones to give her the best sex
Women (and men) have many more erogenous zones than the handful we focus on. If you’ve followed this guide, you’ll already be stimulating one of them – her brain – by encouraging her to think about what she likes. Pay similar attention to her scalp, ears, neck, wrists, fingers and feet, and make tonight’s session a 100% body experience with which she’ll be dazzled.
4 – Get close to the sensitive area
In simple terms: it works with a lot of things you don’t have. Poll the Internet or crack open a book and remember which parts tend to react favorably to which stimuli. Remember, for example, that some women find direct contact with the clitoris too intense. And that simulating the area around it or manipulating it through the clitoral hood is a great way to start assessing her comfort level. Find out more about how she loves rubbing an area of around 4 to 6 cm in the vagina and on the front anterior wall.
5 – Review your script to slow down your work
It’s not always the case, but women usually complain that men’s sexual response doesn’t align with their own. Nobody likes to be the famous idiot, so forget what you think you know about a sexual experience. It’s not your fault, of course. But if you feel you’re still approaching the “point of no return” too quickly, get in the habit of withdrawing. Then go down on her for a cunnilingus. Stimulate her manually. Kiss her other erogenous zones or just party until things have calmed down a bit. If you use this technique enough, you’ll be able to get a better idea of your own response. This will gradually lengthen the duration of sexual intercourse.
