The fantasy of lesbians in prison is often depicted in popular culture, but it’s important to note that it’s usually a fantasized and often hypersexualized representation rather than a reality. However, reality sometimes meets fiction.
This fantasy is often depicted in films, TV series or even in certain erotic literary accounts, but it can also be a reality, if we are to believe the many testimonies of female prisoners, warders and visitors. According to some estimates, gay relations are around 68% in male prison environments, while the figure for women is 90-98%. These figures should be treated with caution, as they are not official.
What’s more, there’s an interesting point to be made: for some women, it would seem that they only become gay during this period of imprisonment. And it would be better experienced than by men, where the one who “does the woman” is perceived as weak.
In any case, the fantasy of lesbians in prison exists as much in the minds of sex-hungry women as it does in those who live it.
What this fantasy reflects..
It combines several elements that arouse excitement or interest:
– The taboo and the forbidden
Lesbian relationships can be perceived as forbidden in many social contexts, and prison is often depicted as a place where normal social rules don’t apply.
– Confinement and isolation
The enclosed environment of prison can create sexual tension between inmates, as they are often confined together for long periods without access to outside partners.
– Power and control
In some accounts or testimonies, there can be a power dynamic between inmates, where one exerts control over the other, adding an element of domination and submission.
However, it is essential to stress that this representation is often exaggerated and far removed from the reality of relationships between inmates. Prisons are complex environments with varied social dynamics, and sexual or romantic relationships between inmates are not necessarily more common than in other contexts. What’s more, these fantasies do not reflect the reality of the difficulties and dangers that incarcerated people can encounter.
What it says about you..
The fantasy of lesbians in prison may reflect some of your character traits or sexual preferences, or whatever lies behind it. I’ll decipher it for you.
If you’re a voyeur
Your interest in lesbian prison fantasy may reflect a curiosity for provocative plots and sensual depictions. You might find excitement in observing forbidden and erotic dynamics, often present in this fantasy. You may enjoy the titillation of these depictions, finding fascination in transgressing social boundaries and discovering sultry scenarios.
If you’re an actor
Your interest in this fantasy could indicate an openness to exploring role-playing and sensual experiences with a partner, or the threesome (the favorite fantasy of the French). You might be attracted by the idea of creating naughty scenarios, perhaps even exploring aspects of domination and submission in a playful way. For you, this fantasy could represent an opportunity to explore power dynamics with a willing partner in an erotic play setting. Who wouldn’t love a bit of soft or hard BDSM after all?
Either way, your interest in this fantasy suggests an openness to exploration and experimentation, whether through observing erotic stories or a willingness to incorporate fantasy elements into your own intimate experiences. It’s a window onto erotic curiosity and creativity in the sphere of intimacy and sensuality.
How do inmates have sex with each other?
It’s a question many of you have asked yourselves, I know from experience. The advantage of fantasy is that you can imagine what you want to achieve orgasm and cum in the way that pleases you most. But in reality? Is our imagination richer than a prisoner’s everyday life? An American prison officer gives us an answer:
Cédric Long:
” 1 – Sex with staff – where I worked, 31 prison staff were fired or forced to resign in one year because of inappropriate interactions with inmates. Male and female staff. 8 inmates became pregnant that year while incarcerated.
2 – Sex with each other – Inmates had sex on a daily basis, mainly in the showers, but even in the chapel during religious services.
3 – Masturbation – Violations of rule 38 were not stopped. The worst cases were inmates who had holes in their pockets and masturbated while talking to you.
4 – Makeshift sex toys – We have a cupboard full of modified things to use for self-indulgence. For example, inmates would wrap coffee in plastic Kegel balls, take plastic spoons wrapped in foam rubber and place gloves on them.”
In the end, apart from the DIY sex toys (and even then, we’re thinking of all the fruity sex games, to name but one), nothing is really technically different. All notion of legality and danger removed. How do you imagine two lesbians in prison?
Her artistic representations
There are a number of artistic works, whether in literature, film, television or even the visual arts, that explore the theme of lesbian relationships in prison. These works can vary in their approach and in the way they tackle this sensitive subject. Here are just a few examples:
Cinema and television
–“Orange Is the New Black” (TV Series): this series explores daily life in a women’s prison, tackling various relationships and dynamics between inmates, including lesbian relationships. But personally, I find the series very romanticized and it almost makes you want to go to prison and make girlfriends. Admittedly, there’s a better way of doing it..
–“Wentworth” (TV series): an Australian series focusing on life in prison and featuring lesbian relationships between the characters. Much more realistic, the latter depicts relationships between inmates in a cruder way, far removed from the romantic and erotic universe.
Literature
–“Stone Butch Blues” by Leslie Feinberg: this novel tackles themes of gender, sexuality and identity in the context of a prison. A classic of its kind.
–“Fingersmith” by Sarah Waters: although this novel is not set entirely in prison, part of the plot takes place in a penal institution and features lesbian relationships.
Visual arts
–Contemporary artworks: some contemporary artists have explored the theme of prison and relationships between incarcerated women visually in their artistic creations, whether through painting, sculpture or other visual art forms.
–Documentary photography: photographers have sometimes documented prison life and may have captured moments that include relationships between inmates.
These artistic works often approach the fantasy of lesbians in prison in a narrative or visual way, seeking to explore the human dynamics, social taboos and sometimes brutal realities of prison life, although some may take artistic liberties to spark public interest or intrigue. After that, it’s up to you to choose according to your preferences.
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