Whether cisgender or transgender, there’s always the question of whether a person who has transitioned can experience orgasms, and if so, which ones. Let me shed some light on the matter.
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Being a trans woman requires a lot of attention. You need to have a feminine appearance, with a face with softer features, curves with breasts and hips. You also need to be dressed accordingly, while hiding any slightly too masculine angles. Then it’s time for accessories and make-up. But in reality, it doesn’t stop there. Personality is of course taken into account, not necessarily sexual orientation, although gender is important. In fact, it raises many questions.
Trans women and cisgender people alike will be asking questions about transgender sexuality. Is it possible to feel pleasure after a transition? Can you come and have orgasms? Will it hurt? How will the partner feel? So let me reassure you right away: yes, a transgender person can feel pleasure and have orgasms. And not just one! So here are the different pleasures you could give a trans woman.
The clitoris, the base
A trans woman on the operating table will have a sex similar to that of an organic woman (born female). She’ll have a clitoris, labia majora and labia minora, and a reconstructed vagina. The clitoris can be very sensitive and is therefore a first gateway to orgasm. It can be stimulated, like the penis, by being titillated on the hood (prepuce) or directly (like the glans on men). Sensitivity then depends on the individual. Some prefer a gentle approach, others a little firmer.
In all cases, you need to communicate with your partner to find out his or her preferences. As with a cisgender woman, you’ll also need to lubricate him so that it’s not painful. You can use your tongue, your fingers, a sextoy, … whatever you like, as long as your partner is willing.
The classic vaginal orgasm
Here again, in practice, nothing differs from a cisgender woman. It’s entirely possible for a transgender woman to get off so much on good penetration that she orgasms with pleasure. Vaginal orgasm is permitted because there is friction. One post-operative trans woman had the body of the penis inverted into a vagina, so that stimulation closely resembles a natural vagina. Rhythmic thrusting with fingers or a toy will provoke the same orgasmic reaction. The vagina can even lubricate naturally.
Finding the G-spot
The G-spot is located in a similar position in men and women. The female G-spot is located in the vagina at a distance corresponding to that of the male prostate. A trans woman’s prostate will therefore be stimulated during vaginal penetration by the glans or penis, which will titillate this area by pressing against the walls. A good sodomy will also do the trick.
The G-spot has the advantage of offering very deep orgasms. Each sensation can gain in intensity when the erogenous zones are well stimulated before orgasm and/or when you have feelings for your partner.
Trans woman and fountain woman
If you can generate a good climax in your partner, you’ll be surprised to learn that the trans woman can have an ejaculatory orgasm. Admittedly, you won’t get as far as the fountain woman – sorry – but you might be able to get her to squirt. That makes it seminal fluid, because even if testosterone blockers do their job, with the right stimulation you can still see a little liquid.
Discovering point A
If you’re unfamiliar with the term, that’s okay. The A-spot isn’t the one most people talk about. To be more precise, it refers to the anterior fornix of the uterus and is located about 5 cm deeper in the vagina than the G-spot. The A-spot is often described as responsible for multiple orgasms and does not become sensitized after stimulation, so it can continue to develop.
To get closer to it, sodomy will be your friend. In fact, the reconstructed vagina won’t be deep enough to reach the seminal vesicle area, and this could be painful. So it’s not an orgasm for everyone.
Deep orgasm
Another little-known orgasm for novices. It refers to the posterior fornix, located just above the cervix in biological women. It provokes very deep, intense orgasms, rather like the A-spot. Many people confuse the two.
Explore the U-point
Also known as coronal orgasm. In organic women, you’ll find it on the small piece of erectile tissue between the opening of the urethra and the vagina, and is very sensitive, requiring the gentlest touch. For trans women, it’s on the crown of the penis (i.e. the outline of the clitoris). As you know, this is an ultra-sensitive area, so it needs to be well lubricated when you stimulate it. The orgasm of the U-spot is very similar to that of the clitoris.
Titillating the breasts
As I’ve already mentioned, a woman (or a man) can get off just by stimulating her breasts. The nipples, the tips of the nipples or the whole breast can offer great orgasms. Breast stimulation depends on the individual. Some women are sensitive to it, others are not. In any case, for a trans woman, especially in the early stages of hormone treatment, breasts and nipples are among the most sensitive places you’ll have at that time. Make the most of it!
The mouth, the first port of call
Kissing is an important part of body stimulation. It’s usually the first area to be touched during a lovemaking session, and if it’s a good one, it tends to electrify the whole body, making you hard and your panties wet.
Caressing the skin
We don’t think enough about our skin. Yet every day, it’s stimulated in different ways: cold, hot, blows, rubbing, etc. … So it would be quite natural to caress it to boost libido and make the body sensitive to interactions. Plus, it’s super erotic. With estrogen, a trans woman’s skin becomes thinner, making it much more sensitive to touch. Let’s hear it..
Stimulating the mind
First and foremost, if you want your partner to be as horny as possible, you’ll need to think about stimulating … her brain. Without mental excitement, the body has little to do! With the right imagination and the right cues, you can reach orgasm without physical contact. This is how women achieve sexual satisfaction without intercourse. So you’ll have to make a little effort to please your transgender fantasy if you want to give her an unforgettable orgasm.
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