Two women making love… Two female bodies rubbing against each other.. .Well, it’s every man’s favorite fantasy. Seeing two lesbians, or at least two women, tends to make you horny. And what could be more exciting than imagining yourself joining them? But do you know where your lesbian fantasy comes from?
What man hasn’t fantasized about two women having hot, passionate sex? Even to the point of proposing it to conquests or a one-night stand! We won’t judge, because we totally understand this kind of desire. Especially as this kind of scene is commonplace in the world of porn and erotica. But can they really have fun without a man in the equation?
Pleasure without a penis
The male ego tends to think that a woman can only take pleasure from a man or a phallus-shaped sextoy. You’ll be disappointed to learn that these ladies can do just fine without you and your manly member. However, this doesn’t mean that a good sextoy or an occasional cock will be shunned by women. Some need it, some don’t.
And let’s not forget the atmosphere. Hearing the other take pleasure, or sometimes following her desires by submitting to them, can be just as exciting as a phallus. So yes, women can take pleasure without penetration. Caressing and rubbing are the way to go.
Imagining a scenario to boost libido
Think about the fact that women like to imagine a situation in order to get more aroused. It’s even better than having a specific person in mind. Fantasy starts with an imaginary setting that serves to provoke or increase sexual arousal. Whether conscious or not, it activates sexual desire.
It’s the same with lesbian fantasy. We think about it, we dream about it, it makes our sheets wet, but we don’t always want to realize it. Or at least, we want to watch but not always participate. Why don’t we? Quite simply because, once it becomes a reality, it loses its power. And since, by definition, two lesbians aren’t looking to sleep with a man, the fantasy lasts and lasts on the male side of the force. To no avail.
Cunnilingus, an art in itself
Thanks to the gradual awakening of your knowledge of female pleasure, you’ve gained a few extra skills in this area to make a woman come. It’s impossible to ignore the multitude of books, tutorials, articles, videos, etc. that describe how to make it happen. That tell you how to get it right every time. The world of feminist porn has also helped democratize this practice and shown how to do it too.
Lesbian fantasy, also present in straight women
As a reminder, an Ifop survey carried out for the adult film site Référence Sexe, on the subject of fantasies about sex between women, reveals which practice moves women the most between them.
- At the top of the list, 55% of respondents chose “seeing a woman receive or perform cunnilingus with another woman”, as did 72% of the men questioned.
- In second place, 30% of women chose “to see a woman caressing or kissing another woman’s breasts”, while the men voted for “to see a woman penetrating another woman’s vagina”.
- In third place, 28% of women chose “two women kissing”, while 52% of men voted for “seeing a woman kissing another woman’s breasts”.
Women want to discover another woman’s body
They may be straight, but they still fantasize about a lesbian experience. Why do they do this? Probably to achieve scenes not seen in “classic” X-rated films. They want to explore a body that resembles their own. And this applies to both single women and those in couples.
For those in couples, it’s often a question of fulfilling a couple’s fantasy or pleasing their partner.
10 misconceptions about lesbian sex
When we have a lesbian fantasy, we have a preconceived idea of what the scene will be like. But in reality, some misconceptions persist. It’s time to know what to expect.
1 – Lesbian sex is always tender
Nothing could be further from the truth. Just because it’s two women doesn’t mean it’s necessarily tender, sweet and lascivious. Lesbian sex can be wild too. Just take a look at the BDSM world.
2 – Without penetration, it’s not sex
Well, it is. Just because there’s no penis in the equation doesn’t mean it’s not sex. Doubtful? Oral penetration, masturbation or humping? In short, sexuality is a much broader and richer spectrum, so let’s not boil it down to just penetration.
3 – A sextoy is essential
No. Women have many erogenous zones that allow them to enjoy in many different ways. It’s not all about the clitoris or vagina. Caresses in sometimes surprising places (like the back of the knee) can be just as effective. Of course, it’s possible to have fun with one or more gadgets, such as the famous belt dildo over-represented in X-rated films, but no, they’re not part of every sex session.
4 – A finger and a lick are all it takes
It’s a good thing lesbian sex is a little broader than that. The poor things would be bored otherwise. Just think about changing positions to increase sensitivity and pleasure, and you’ll be on your way to orgasm.
5 – Best position: scissors
No, that’s a porno movie trick. There are far better positions for stimulating the clitoris.
6 – All women fantasize about other women
If you think all women want to sleep with other women, I suggest you ask the ones you know around you and we’ll talk about it. That’s just an excuse to propose a threesome, we know.
7 – Lesbians don’t really like carnal relations
Some people think lesbian sex is the decline of sexual activity. Watch two women together in front of a cam and you might be surprised.
8 – It’s always thesamewomanwho does the man
So yes, there are some truck-driving lesbians. But they’re far from the majority. Besides, the passive and the active change with each relationship. Sexual relationships are much more intuitive and it doesn’t matter who dominates.
9 – Lesbians are always up for a 3-way with a straight couple
Just because they’re lesbians doesn’t mean they like to mix. As with heteros, there are all kinds of models. But this idea persists in lesbian fantasy.
10 – All lesbians love cunni
In the collective imagination, the sexual relationship between two women is based on the practice of cunninlingus. While cunninlingus is obviously an important part of the relationship, it’s not an end in itself, and can therefore be completely absent from a lesbian relationship. For many different reasons. As with heterosexuals.
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