Why do Western men like Asian women? A veritable walking fantasy for some, Asian women convey a number of clichés that appeal to men. What are they, and why do Asian women appeal so much to men?
Perhaps you’re one of those people who have a particular fondness for women from Asia. You appreciate her culture and values, but sometimes find it hard to communicate. Luckily for you, chances are she speaks your language, or at least English. All the more reason to dazzle and attract you.
Asian women represent elegance and seduction
Asian women are pros when it comes to beauty. They know how to make the most of themselves, and they love it. As a Chinese proverb says: “Beauty is the reflection of their wisdom”. Well, I know it isn’t, but … Hush …. In any case, each Asian country has its own physical imprint and therefore its own type of beauty. The common thread is that Asian women know how to enhance their natural beauty.
But beware. Beneath their graceful, delicate looks, they nonetheless demonstrate a solid character and a bulletproof psychology. For if you’ve ever been to these countries, you’ll surely have noticed the resilience of the Asian woman, who puts in a hard day’s work every day. In addition to strength and wisdom, she is often diligent and well-educated. It’s a question of education, with a culture that often pushes performance. She also shows great kindness and helpfulness. Be careful, because she wants you to be. She will avoid direct confrontation most of the time and tends to submit to authority. But there are exceptions, of course…
But she can also be one of many characters
Geisha or schoolgirl, vamp or warrior, submissive or domineering, the Asian woman has been a constant source of fantasy for Westerners over the past 2 centuries. Sometimes the submissive, subservient wife, sometimes the super-trendy, deadly seductress. In short, she’s alluded to the most sulphurous images. This is probably due to her almond-shaped eyes, which seem to hide many mysteries.
A sexy imagination rooted in the ancient brothels of Asia
Eric Derro, director and anthropologist, assistant to filmmaker Robert Bresson, evokes an erotic imagination rooted in colonial history and the brothels of Indochina. After the publication of Pierre Loti’s novel “Madame Chrysanthème”, the soldiers were mainly looking for Japanese women. An imaginary world was created from there, a sophistication and refinement unique in Asia. Tonkinese women dressed according to this demand.
The idea of the Asian woman, stripped naked, with the talents of a masseuse… A compact, concentrated imaginary, produced by French colonialists around this representation of the Asian woman, chic, refined, sophisticated, a hijacked definition of the Geisha, as seen by Westerners.
The Asian woman is inferior to the European woman, but she has something more: exoticism, charm, a smile, an impenetrable face, a grace, a body movement that is striking in comparison with European stiffness. It was in Europe that the codes that persist to this day were established.
What is the “perfect” image of the Asian woman fantasy?
According to the “trends” I’ve been able to identify, we often find these physical characteristics. First of all, the cheekbones are prominent on a round face. Of course, the “cat’s eyes” are more or less slanted depending on the country of origin or mixed race, but they are important in the profile of the Asian woman. And let’s not forget long, beautiful, shiny black hair.
They’re often compared to porcelain dolls. She also needs to have a waspish waist and, of course, a small stature. It’s this small size that will make her want to be protected. And she’ll appreciate the protection of men.
So much for the ideal fantasy of the Asian woman.
Tips for flirting with the most beautiful Asian women
Before taking the plunge, remember to ask yourself what type of Asian woman you’re looking for. As I was saying, the typologies and cultures of different countries are very different. So a Japanese woman won’t have the same characteristics as a Vietnamese woman, for example. And Japanese women tend to be more modern and open-minded, while Chinese women are much more traditional. Take the time to refine your expectations so as not to make a mistake.
Like the black woman, the Asian woman likes men who are gallant, elegant, classy and charismatic. And preferably with a well-stocked wallet to ensure that the man she cherishes can take care of her.
Always be polite and respectful.
Even if you’re showing your self-confidence, don’t patronize her. Take your time seducing her, she likes to play and be wooed. You have a jewel in front of you, so learn to adapt so that she falls under your spell.
Take an interest in her culture and, why not, that of neighboring countries. So, in your spare time, read up on the practices that are dear to her, her culture, her habits, her complexes and her faults. Above all, don’t hesitate to find out about her particular preferences and what Asian women dislike, so as not to make irreversible mistakes. By way of illustration, you should know that most Asian women don’t appreciate compliments relating to their eyes and smile.
Be patient and persistent. Asian women are notoriously shy and devious. This is precisely what makes them so special, and creates a huge complex for those who don’t know how to deal with them. So if she turns you down, don’t give up just yet, and show your perseverance. And analyze her reactions, so you’ll know how to act.
Now you have a few tips for seducing Asian women. Now it’s up to you!
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