a day. And yet, Cubans have fantasies. So what are they?

On this small island in Latin America, sexuality is an institution. The local atmosphere is impregnated with it. Music is a call to sex. We even teach prevention at school by talking about protection. And relations are experienced quite differently than in Europe. For example, for a first relationship, sex is perceived as a normal passage. And the feelings only come if you stay with the person. you are with someone, after 3 days you can live with the other and consider yourself married (but without papers).

Prostitution is also much more tolerated, because it allows many families to live. And then, as is cultural, women are not judged for sleeping with whoever they want, whether locals or foreigners. In Cuba, sex makes you feel free. Cubans want to have fun, but don’t want personal commitment and talk about love. Something to delight many European men… And to fulfill the fantasies of our islanders.

Sex anchored in the mores of the island …

Writer Mario Vargas Llosa once said , referring to his novel  Pantaleon and the Visitors: ” Erotica is the  way to dignify sex through fantasy and culture.” Sexuality is, in general, a complex subject. Understanding and accepting it openly involves a strong dose of self-knowledge, as well as the ability to get rid of anthological prejudices.  

For many, sex consists of penetration. Big mistake, you must know it if you follow my articles. Especially when you know all the erogenous zones of men and women. And that we know that we can enjoy just with the breasts. In reality, penetration is a sexual act among many others and does not symbolize sex on its own. You also have to think about foreplay, naughty little games and expectations that enrich the couple’s intimacy more than the act itself. And the Cubans have understood it well, you just have to listen to the local music and taste the gastronomy of the island which warms you from head to toe.

… But talking about it is still taboo

Quite a contradiction! There, everything is a call to sex, and yet, we don’t talk about it much. In Cuba, where sex has always been a taboo – despite Cubans’ bragging about size, flavor and movement – there is a fairly limited culture regarding what is meant by sexual fantasies, and a noticeable reluctance, of from women, to talk about them.

Why such a reluctance to share his fantasies? It’s hard to say, but you can take the context into account. Sex is practiced in private, and we do not confide in what we do in the bedroom. Let’s not forget the lack of structures dedicated to particular pleasures, despite a population that is not so prudish, but which does not have access to this information and these resources.

How then to know their sexual fantasies?

At men’s

What is certain is that sexual fantasies serve as a libido booster for the couple. This makes it possible to forget the routine and to maintain the passion. However, these remain fairly classic, such as the threesome, which remains one of the preferred alternatives. Certainly, most men dream of intimacy between two women. However, numerous studies have shown that before intervening, they like to watch. What is surprising with this fantasy is that for Cubans, it has nothing to do with voyeurism or submission . This is part of the “classic” practices with no other desire than to have fun.

Another fantasy that particularly appeals to men (perhaps you have the same one), is the “harem”. Surrounded by women placed at his disposal, the man is thus the center of attention and can receive and give a lot of pleasure. It is also surprising to note that threesomes and orgies are central paradigms in pornographic films, a product that significantly marks the sexual imagination of the Cuban subject. We can affirm with certainty that in Cuba more pornography is consumed than erotic cinema, and from this postulate we can understand why the sexual fantasies of the islanders always tend towards the direct. This is explained by popular culture where TV is everywhere, and now the Internet with mobile phones.

In women

Women temper this scheme a little with a little more varied sexual fantasies, even if one still feels a strong lack of imagination. For them too, threesomes are at the top of their naughty desires, and they, with two men of course. Here again we find the influence of the pornographic universe since some women assert their desires, others imagine themselves doing so and men are convinced that feeling possessed by two or more sexual partners is every woman’s dream.

Other fantasies among women: domination and disguise. If in Europe, you have easy access to accessories that allow you to dress up to spice up the antics, this is not the case in Cuba, for lack of equipment. Many would like to dress up, but in a country where basic needs are barely covered, it is practically impossible to buy a panther, schoolgirl, prostitute or other costume. The few  sex shops  that exist are underground and offer a fairly expensive and limited range of products.

A phantasmagoric universe limited by the environment

The lack of individual freedom here reaches intimacy. So much so that it is difficult to talk about it for the islanders, and especially women, despite growing prostitution. When it comes to talking about something as natural and necessary as sex, they respond with vagueness and ignorance. We can better understand why the population of the island is declining. And if you add to that a difficult economic context, and a few other political factors, you get a population that has limited sexual fantasies in terms of knowledge and imagination.

Still, it’s easy to talk about sex in general. It is all the ambivalence of the Cubans. Both men and women use a provocative tone and foul language to do this, always pointing out the obvious. Here, we like to do it fast and strong, in an intense way and we don’t always bother with the preludes. A contradiction with the idea that we have of Cuba as a source of infinite pleasure, which is understood by primary needs that are more urgent to fulfill than one’s sexual needs.

So if you go to Cuba, you can find women who are willing to sleep with you, but are not looking for a long or romantic relationship. Here, passion is in order but remains “classic”. That said, it will be more than enough to make you sweat all the water out of your body and exhaust your cock with pleasure.

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