You’ve got a few years of life together behind you, and as much as you love your partner, the desire in your relationship has run out of steam. There may be many reasons for this: routine, stress, day-to-day worries, projects, work..
Anyway… Your mind was on other things! It’s high time to blow it all off and give your sex life and libido a boost, full of fun and pleasure. Your relationship will thank you.
When your sex life is at a standstill or going round in circles, it’s time to get a little inventive and/or enterprising. Break the routine, dare to try new things, test your desires with your partner to discover a new libido and fill your nights again with unbridled sex. Here are 5 tips to boost your libido.
Tip N°1: Be playful
Why not try your hand at all kinds of games: role-playing, disguises, changing habits, etc. There are lots of solutions! Why not try outdoor sex if you’ve never done it before? Or buy a few sex toys to spice up your sex life. The body is made up of various erogenous zones, so we might as well titillate them to increase everyone’s pleasure, don’t we? Dare to have phone sex at times when it shouldn’t be – a little risk always heightens sexual desire when you’re playing the game. In short, you’re spoilt for choice.
Tip No. 2: Dare to be libertine
Why stick to the model of the classic couple? If you’re bored with your relationship, opt for new solutions that will boost your libido. Finding new partners for an evening to satisfy a few unspoken desires, or discovering more about yourself to put it to good use in your relationship, can be a good idea. Make sure, however, that this is done in agreement with each of you, and that you respect the established rules.
Tip 3: Learn to communicate with your partner
When you’re in a relationship, you get to know the other person, you develop habits, but you sometimes forget to communicate. And yet it’s the BASICS. Ego, fears, shyness… these are all obstacles that sometimes make us swallow our tongues when we shouldn’t. It’s important to talk about your desires, wants and needs. So is the way you like things. It builds trust and complicity as a couple, and makes sex all the more exciting!
Tip 4: Share special moments together
“A woman who’s half laughing in your bed” also applies to her partner! Complicity also develops elsewhere than under the comforter. Exercise your zygomatic, do something fun together, share strong emotions. Shout, cry, scream, laugh… Live your emotions to the full! This stimulates the blood circulation in your body, and the positive effect of shared good times will add to your excitement. Play sports together! Exercise improves blood flow to the genitals and boosts your mood, thanks in part to the happy hormone endorphin. Two birds with one stone!
Tip No. 5: Create lack
Out of sight, out of mind? Not always, especially after years of living together. It’s understandable that it can be difficult to remain interesting in the eyes of the person you see every morning when you wake up and every evening when you come home from work. We say to ourselves “great, finally a moment to myself”, and in the end, we quickly miss the other person. And that’s just as well! It’s good for your relationship and your libido. The reason for this is the fear of losing the other person and the feeling of being in a state of weakness. Think of the pleasure of finding your partner and the moment when you’ll jump at him or her to prove it..
