Lesbian cams are your favorite. They tend to make your penis stand up for a good wank and a nice squirt.But before your first lesbian video or stream, you had a lot of questions about what to expect. And you still have. So how does sex between women really work? I’ll tell you all about it.

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When we think of sex between homosexual women, we think of good cunnilingus, fingering or the famous scissor position. While lesbian sex is often reduced to a few positions, their sexuality is actually much broader. Did you think you knew everything about lesbians and their sexuality? Maybe not..

Defining lesbian sex

As the name suggests, lesbian sex is sex between women. We’ll call it a homosexual relationship when it’s only between women who desire only women. This is what can be classified as sexual orientation. And this kind of relationship tends to convey many fantasies , while at the same time being rather reductive about women’s sexual practices. In a way, it’s almost an oxymoron. Especially since, in reality, their sexuality is just as diverse as in a heterosexual relationship. Why should it be any different?

In any case, what’s certain is that lesbians generate a lot of desire in men who fantasize about making love with her. You also know (since you’ve read all my articles, don’t you) that threesomes are one of the most common male fantasies. Two sexual desires added together, bingo. In addition to these erotic desires, it’s important to understand that homosexual women are normal women who feel pleasure and desire above all else, just like straight women. Only certain practices and positions are different.

What are lesbian sex practices?

Let’s start with the basics. As with a man, oral sex can be a first approach. A few licks (cunni, anulingus), a few fingers, maybe one or more sex toys, before moving on to more, or not. It can be foreplay or the main course, depending on your mood. Cunnilingus remains the best-known form, however, and is often performed in the 69 position. The latter is comfortable and gives pleasure to both partners.

Next, let’s talk about penetration. This can be anal or vaginal, with fingers or an object. Many sex toys are designed for female pleasure, with vibrators, plugs, geisha balls, etc., playing on different sensations to ensure orgasm. But it can also be rubbing between the sexes and caressing the erogenous zones. This stimulates the clit and vulva at the same time, bringing enormous pleasure.

What are the best positions?

We’ll often go for the 69 position, as it offers a double whammy when it comes to sex. The spoon position is also often appreciated for allowing masturbation of both and also caresses on the breasts or other sensitive areas. When you know that you can get off just with your breasts… Imagine when different areas are stimulated at the same time! Caresses and cuddles are also required. However, you can also expand on this with the Kamasutra, which devotes a section to lesbian sex. It presents different sexual positions with or without penetration. Something to inspire you.

You may be surprised to learn that women also like the missionary, with a few variations that allow simultaneous fingering. You can also use a belt dildo for the more experienced. After that, really, all the classic positions are possible between lesbians, and penetrations are done either with the fingers or, most commonly, with a sextoy.

Let’stalk about penetration ..

Penetration isn’t an end in itself in a lesbian relationship, unlike a relationship with a man (well, most of them aren’t). Especially as between women, there’s a lot of oral sex, touching, caressing, kissing, … And let’s not forget that rubbing is also ultra-exciting. What’s more, a woman’s body has so many erogenous zones that it’s easy to push her to orgasm without anal or vaginal penetration.

Even among sex toys, there are many models that enhance pleasure without penetration. This means they can be used in a variety of ways, from a simple vibration to a dildo that titillates the G-spot. And the big advantage is that they can be used alone or with one or more partners.

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30% of women say they are ready to try a sexual relationship with another woman

Homosexuality is a little more accepted in our society, and lesbians are better tolerated than men. An acceptance surely linked to lesbian fantasy. In any case, it’s surprising to find that 30% of women, according to Statista, are not attracted to a homosexual relationship, but would be willing to try it if the opportunity arose. Only 56% are absolutely against it. So if I translate, 1 in 2 women has lesbian potential. What’s more, 12% of young women say they’ve already had a homosexual relationship and enjoyed it (8% of men, for the record).

It would seem that this open-mindedness is linked to the changing practices of the younger generations. We’re thinking in particular of the success of skin parties, sex parties (parties where hard drugs, alcohol and sex mix) and chemsex (sex on drugs), to name but a few. Sexual practices have also evolved. Women are more inclined to perform oral sex, and more of them have tried sodomy. And it’s worth pointing out that women ready to take the plunge are mostly between 18 and 24. So they’re more adventurous and curious about their sexuality.

In any case, you can see that fantasy about lesbians might be richer than the one you might have in mind. And if the numbers are anything to go by, some of them could come true, like the famous threesome with two women inviting you to kiss them. Anything’s possible.

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