Interracial couples are increasingly common. And in 73% of white/black cases, it’s white men who date black women. So why are these couples becoming more and more numerous? What are the reasons ? Explanations.

Today we observe more and more mixed couples but also more and more mixed marriages, all ethnic groups combined. For example, in 2019, mixed marriages represented 15.3% of marriages celebrated in France, they represented 6% in 1950. Among the 212,415 marriages concluded in 2019, 32,430 of them united a person of foreign nationality and a person of French nationality. In 2015, in 37% of cases, the foreign spouse had the nationality of a North African country, 22% were European Union nationals and 14% from sub-Saharan Africa (INED).

If the number of marriages has decreased in recent years following a tightening of laws, mixed couples are resisting and new ones are emerging. All the polls underline the growing open-mindedness of the French on this subject. And black women take advantage of this because many of them adore white men, who reciprocate. So why ? There are several reasons for this. So, if you’re not interested in the details, you can always find my advice for dating a black woman . Otherwise, stay with me and follow your guide but keep in mind that my arguments are drawn from personal observations and not scientifically validated.

It is a gateway to cultural diversity _ _

Individuals may be attracted to people of other ethnic backgrounds because of their openness to diversity and the cultural richness it brings. Meeting and connecting with people from different backgrounds can be rewarding and empowering. And then, like the Gaijin Hunters , some people are drawn to other countries, to other cultures to “escape” their own.

And what could be more different than Western culture and Eastern culture?! We can understand the desire for exoticism of the two partners, with the somewhat fantasized ideas of the other’s culture in mind. And then, it helps to find topics of conversation during the seduction phase.

Great personal compatibility

If couples are formed, it is above all because there is an alchemy , a strong attraction between the two partners. But chemistry is not enough and many criteria come into play. Indeed, love preferences are often based on individual criteria such as personality, interests, values ​​and common goals. These elements can be more important in a relationship than the race or ethnicity of the partners. And for a black woman, it’s even more important. Her so exotic partner becomes her center of attention and she will want to please him.

So even if his last Mapouka put you in a trance, if you want to be a couple, you will need a little more than a boost (although it helps in the relationship, let’s face it). It is by communicating and sharing good times that we learn to discover the other and see if we are compatible. And black women will do anything to make you have a good time. There is also an expression on this subject: “When you taste a black, you never back”.

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The deconstruction of stereotypes _ _ _

People may be attracted to people of another race or ethnicity in an effort to overcome stereotypes and prejudices associated with their own group or that of their potential partner. This can be a way to promote equality, mutual understanding and to fight against racism. And for a black woman, it’s a way of asserting herself and emphasizing her integration into society.

Because yes, interracial couples often face many clichés, prejudices and even racist insults. A woman is also more often exposed to it than a man. Especially if she’s black and he’s white. But that doesn’t stop the black woman who will hold her head high and dignified. Which makes her even sexier, right?!

They like physical diversity

When I spoke to you about “exoticism”, it is found in the culture, the state of mind and the appearance. The diversity of physical features is often seen as attractive and can spark interest in people of other ethnic backgrounds. The different physical characteristics can be perceived as a unique and attractive aesthetic element. And black women who like white men are no exception. They like their white skin, the shape of their nose, the shape of the limbs which can be tapered differently, etc.

This is also partly due to the beauty culture of black women who want to whiten their skin. So dating a white man makes them feel a little more “Western”. This is also a major debate at the health and personal level in populations with dark skin. But I’m not going to redo the whole explanation, which would be long and tedious and would require several articles before coming back to our subject!

They want another social environment and another standard of living

Among black women, there are those who seek out white men for their social status and their wallet. Again, this is not a generality but they exist. The white man then becomes the prey to be caught. More faithful (they think), more stable, more responsible, richer, he becomes the symbol of a better life. These “michtoneuses” make every effort to make you succumb and keep you in their nets.

Some will know how to be tender, others more dominant , but in all cases, they understand your expectations and your desires and know how to fulfill them. In return, you will have to spoil her and put her at the center of your universe. You will have to value her and she will want to show it to those around her. But rest assured, there are reasonable ones.

There are always exceptions to any rule, as I told you, these arguments come from my observations and exchanges with my black friends so do not take this as an absolute truth. As in every ethnicity, there are all kinds of profiles and motivations for romantic relationships so if you are in a mixed couple and it goes well, enjoy it and I wish you years of happiness!

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