The practice of spanking was first observed around the 19th century, through various representations in literature, specialist journals and photography. Interest in the art grew in the 20th century. And many women began to get turned on by the idea of having their buttocks slapped. After many years of being relegated to a private, taboo subject, spanking is now enjoying a renaissance in the BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Submission, Sado-Masochism) and erotic play communities.
The art of spanking, often seen as a form of domination and submission, nevertheless aims to give pleasure to one’s partner without being brutal and without wanting to hurt, in order to eroticize sexual relations. The rest of this article looks at the different spanking techniques, the tools used, the sensations they provide and the latest trends in spanking games.
The different spanking techniques
Spanking or spanking is the result of an agreement with the partner (one person dominates and another is submissive). And during intercourse, it’s the dominant person who spanks. Spanking can take many forms, depending on your partner’s preferences or limitations. There are a number of different spanking techniques:
- erotic spanking ;
- playful spanking
- disciplinary spanking
- therapeutic spanking.
Erotic spanking
Erotic spanking is a very common practice these days, and is actually a form of role-playing. Many women enjoy the practice, but don’t dare ask their partner to do it. It’s not just a question of slapping, but of giving pleasure to one’s partner. This practice is common in couples where trust and respect are mutual. It’s a great way to spice up your sex life and make new discoveries.
If erotic spanking is so popular, it’s because the buttocks, by virtue of their proximity to the genitals and anal area, are among the most erogenous and stimulating parts of the body. In the midst of sexual intercourse, they therefore generate emotions of pleasure that have been demonstrated by experts and sexologists. When properly executed, a spanking increases blood volume at the skin’s surface, dopamine and sensitivity. It releases endorphins in the body (the hormone of happiness) as well as relaxation. At the same time, it reduces pain and makes you want to do it all over again.
Playful spanking
Playful spankings are slaps performed with the aim of entertaining your partner. In other words, it’s a little tap that you might lovingly perform on your partner’s lovely pair of buttocks, with a view to complimenting him or her. The playful spanking is therefore light, and is performed with the buttocks covered, i.e. the partner is clothed during the spanking. Once a couple has done this, it can lead to other types of spanking or intercourse.
Disciplinary spankings
Disciplinary spanking must be carried out in a consensual environment. It is not primarily intended to give pleasure to your partner. On the other hand, most erotic spankers are also disciplinary spankers. It’s a form of libertarianism that can be frightening for people who don’t know much about it. But when practiced under the benevolence of a partner, it can be both reassuring and comforting.
Therapeutic spanking
Therapeutic spanking is all about giving pleasure. Once done, the effect is immediate and sometimes spectacular. It can bring tears to the eyes and allow emotions to be expressed. Of course, you’ll need to follow up the spanking with some tender loving care, including a big kiss, hugs, caresses and kind words. Your partner will feel soothed, relaxed and clear-headed afterwards, as therapeutic spanking helps to relieve anxiety and foster an emotional connection within the couple.
Spanking tools
The art of spanking is associated with several instruments that contribute to the pleasure your partner may experience, including the hand, the paddle, the martinet and the leather belt.
The hand
The natural instrument for spanking is the hand. The idea here is to have your partner offer you a bare bottom on your knees, and then slap you with your bare hands. The hand allows you to enjoy direct contact with your partner’s buttocks. In this case, you can start with caresses to increase the pleasure.
The paddle
The paddle is a spanking tool with a fairly short handle and a rigid plate for better control of the force of the slaps. You can also use it for erotic games. The shape and size of this tool are similar to hairbrushes or ping-pong rackets. In addition to these features, some paddles are pierced with holes, making them suitable for erotic or disciplinary spankings. Paddles are on sale on dedicated websites or in specialist stores. These outlets offer these accessories in all kinds of varieties, including leather, silicone and wood.
Swift
The martinet is an accessory with fine leather straps (10 to 12). Many people use them to practice spanking. It’s a tool that allows you totame even the idea of spanking. You can apply it for a long time without leaving bruises on your partner’s bottom. On the contrary, it’ll raise the temperature, with the sound of the blows adding a touch of excitement. Better still, the swift’s straps will spread the sensation over a large area of the buttocks.
The leather belt
The leather belt is a thick spanking instrument, and its use requires great confidence in the couple. Impeccable handling of the belt without injury enables deep, powerful spankings. This enhances the pleasure of flogging your partner’s ass .
The latest trends in spanking games
There are several erotic spanking games that could spice up your sex life. The tools behind the trendiest games are connected toys. Indeed, some paddles or swifts are equipped with sensors, to check the frequency and intensity of spanking blows. These instruments can be controlled remotely or connected with apps.
In addition to connected toys, you can use virtual reality gadgets to create immersive spanking experiences. Also, while many couples use sensory simulation tools such as feathers, hot wax or ice to intensify pleasure, others opt for personalized, hand-made tools.
In conclusion, spanking is an art that can take many forms, including erotic, playful, disciplinary or therapeutic. And each of these offers distinct sensations and pleasures. The use of spanking tools such as the paddle, the martinet or the leather belt all contribute to varying experiences. So, whether spanking is an intense or timid practice, it has its place in sexual relations and is sure to bring pleasure to your couple.
