Like every ethnic group, Asians have their share of prejudices and stereotypes. And sexuality is no exception. If some of them are true, others are completely false but still persist.

Before dismantling the misconceptions you may have about Asian women, we can take a look at the ones that concern men. One would think of the most common one, the one that states that Asians have small penises. In reality, nothing proves it. The studies conducted on the subject involve voluntary people and a very small portion of the population. So it’s not really revealing. While some pathologists have observed smaller penises in South Korea than in the United States, for example, no real comparisons can be made.

We will also think of the Japanese, who are all thought to be perverse. Thanks to the manges for popularizing the idea. At the same time … Burusera: collecting schoolgirls’ underwear; gōkan play: simulated rape scenes; bukkake: collective ejaculation on an individual … “Twisted” concepts straight from Japan, there are many as in a shokushu gōkan, erotic genre where tentacular monsters fall in love with a woman. Added to all this are many cases of sexual harassment on public transportation…But if we stick to the numbers, according to a 2015 study published by the National Population and Social Security Research Institute, in ten years the share of men between the ages of eighteen and thirty-four who have never had sex has risen from 32% to 42%, and women from 36% to 44%. But that doesn’t mean they are repressing their sexuality. According to another 2019 study (conducted by a British science publisher BMC Public Health) on the sexual inexperience of Japanese youth, 80% of respondents say their sexual inexperience is not voluntary. They do not consider sex a priority in their lives. So we’ll have to go back to the perverse side.

Finally, the last male stereotype I’m going to shoot down: gay men are passive in relationships. Huge cliché. Why should it be different from the West? There is everything, just like in our country. Let’s move on.

There you go, so you don’t get jealous now that I’m going to address 3 completely false sexual stereotypes about Asian women. Here we go.

1 – Asian women are submissive

Or docile, whichever term you prefer. Just thinking about it makes me laugh. So to give you a first thought, they are often represented by flowers (girl) and a dragon (woman). They would become dragon a married woman. In every sense of the word. This suggests a bit of character. Try dating an Asian woman, you’ll see.

However, what is true is that they are often modest, which is quite different in reality. And jealous. Because in their culture, love must be true and therefore intense. In the tradition, they are raised to keep the home as a real little fairy of interior. Moreover, in the popular idea, Asian women are soft, naughty, submissive, shy and a little anxious, quickly reassured by the big and strong husbands.

These images surely come from the times of the first travelers who told their stories once back home, with all the cultural ignorance of the time. These stories were reinforced by the Japanese prints, erotic literature, and liberated morals that they had observed in Asia, shocking their Christian puritanism. Art thus played a great role in the creation of these stereotypes.

A sign of globalization, according to statistics from the pornographic site Pornhub, of the ten most searched terms in 2019, four have a link with Asia. “Japanese” even tops this ranking, which must nevertheless be put into perspective with an explosion of the site’s traffic in Japan. However, the most impressive breakthrough comes from the United States, where “asian” jumps fourteen places to the foot of the podium, just behind “ebony”, and ahead of “latina”, two other terms with ethnic references.

2 -Asian women have tighter vaginas

Ugh, I’m going to choke on my laughter. I really am. This is my favorite stereotype. Especially when you know the female body well. We’ll say thank you to the movie Full Metal Jacket with the famous scene where the Vietnamese prostitute refuses to sleep with an African-American soldier because he has too big a penis. Thanks to him, this image of Asian women was anchored in everyone’s mind: frail, with an eternal child’s body, with a small and tight vagina.

But in real life… It is completely false of course. Medicine proves it because it describes that the vagina adapts in length, width and shape during sexual intercourse, with an average depth of 10 cm and a width of 5 cm. This is an average that applies to all women, regardless of ethnicity. The vagina is flexible. Sorry to break your fantasies.

3 – Religion forbids sex

Well, those who know Thailand know that it is not. And if we look at the vast majority of Asian countries, most of them are in favor of carnal relations. For the followers of Confucius, it is even a natural need even if it is better to do it with the aim of procreating.

If you know Taoism and its “Way”, mating even reflects the principles of the universe, governed by the yin yang. So we are far from the sexual prohibition. According to researcher Li Xiaofan, from the Institute of Religious Studies at Sichuan University, “The fundamental difference between Taoism and Judeo-Christian religions is the place of the two sexes. In Judeo-Christianity, the woman carries the original sin. In Taoism, the two sexes balance the universe. If you are told that it is to save the universe, how can you refuse?

Also, sex is advocated to keep a good health since centuries in the Asian society. It is not taboo, it is put forward and valued. In Buddhism, carnal pleasures are very well tolerated, as long as they remain respectful and well-intentioned. As for Tantrism, born 1,500 years ago, it advocates the exploration of the senses to reach total awakening. The sexual act is thus considered as a way to find harmony.

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