It’snot easy to talk aboutsexuality when you’re an Arab woman.Yet they practice it like everyone else. And sodomy is their guilty pleasure , as it allows them to remain virgins, as required by many religions .
Sexuality and religion often don’t mix. At least, not in so-called “traditional” religions. In my view, this is a contradiction in terms, since good sexuality is essential to fulfillment. So is taking pleasure in it. So we need to practice to find out what’s good for us and what’s not. And prostate pleasure is one of them. Indeed, sodomy is particularly appreciated in Arab Muslim circles, as it allows sexual pleasure while preserving a woman’s virginity. But that’s not the only reason. There’s a kind of fascination in this relationship of domination.
Why are wefascinatedby sodomy?
In 2019, 53% of French women surveyed in an Ifop study said they had already practiced anal pleasure. This figure is growing year on year, despite the fact that 72% of women report “moderate to severe” pain during these acts (compared with 15% of gay men). 29% admit to having already received an anilingus, while 29% have seen their partner ejaculate into their anus. 17% say they have already anilingused their other half, and 12% have inserted an object. How can such a difference in experience be explained? Is it a question of position? A question of practice? A body more suited to sodomy? A bit of all?
It’s often considered that going through the back door when you’re heterosexual is a game of domination over the other person, since you’re inflicting “pain” in this way. It’s a fantasy of an active man on a passive woman. But the roles can be reversed, as in the case of pegging . Incidentally, we can see from this study that only 22% of women have ever put a finger in a man’s anus. And in my personal experience, the higher their position in professional life, the more likely they are to enjoy anal fingering and BDSM.
Another point often highlighted is the disgust/envy ratio. Indeed, in the collective imagination, in addition to the relationship of domination, there’s something dirty about sodomy. Yes, not everyone is familiar with anal enema practices to ensure maximum hygiene, so the idea is forged in people’s minds that ass-filling is painful and dirty. As you’ll see, it’s all a question of knowledge of this sexual practice. It’s true that little “accidents” can happen, but if the ground is well prepared, everything goes smoothly. And you can come so hard with a good sodomy, it would be a shame not to try.
A practice that is becoming increasingly popular with both Eastern and Western women
The craze for the practice is confirmed in other European countries such as Germany, Italy and Spain, where sodomy is equally popular with heterosexual women. Statistically, the report reveals that anal sex is most popular among people aged between 40 and 60..
In fact, anal sex tends to become more popular with French women (aged 30 and over) as they get older. For Arab women, on the other hand, anal sex is practiced earlier, at least for those who want to be sexually active despite certain religious, societal or family constraints. What’s more, among women, sodomy is enjoyed almost as much by women with diplomas as by those with only a Baccalaureate. The slight surprise is that this is a rural rather than an urban practice.
And yet, despite the liberation of female sexuality and pleasure, we learn that the level of sexual dissatisfaction among French women is closer to that observed in Mediterranean countries such as Italy (30%) and Spain (28%). Only 27% and 23% of women respectively consider themselves sexually dissatisfied. Despite the fact that it is in France that women are most likely to have had more than 10 sexual partners in the course of their lives. Could this be a case of French savoir-faire gone to waste?
Anal pleasure, forbidden by religion
We often hear it said in the Catholic and Muslim religions, to name but a few, that prostatic pleasure is forbidden. But why? For Catholic women, it was to preserve the family and banish homosexuality. As for Muslim women, it’s all about… comfort. In fact, the ban comes from the Prophet Muhammad. He knew that the anus doesn’t lubricate naturally, and in his day, being fucked was done dry, without lubricant. So to prevent women suffering while men took pleasure, sodomy became taboo. So it would seem that Islam refuses to allow men’s happiness to be built on women’s unhappiness. I like this idea.
It’s also why Arab women like to practice the little back door, because it’s supposed to be about the pleasure of both partners. And because lubricant has been around ever since. But from what we hear or read here and there, the overwhelming majority of those who indulge in sodomy feel no pleasure at all, and indulge in it just to please the other, or to avoid creating tension in the couple, or even to avoid appearing uptight, and not to please themselves. When it comes to sexual practice, the Muslim should not only think of his own pleasure, but also “and I can even say above all” think of his partner’s pleasure. Imposing a practice that runs counter to her desire is anything but Islamic. No compulsion in religion… no compulsion in the sexual act.
Despite this ..
Even if dogmas are holding women back in the discovery of their sexuality, we can see that as the years go by, female pleasure is becoming more and more important, and sodomy is one of the sexual practices that’s becoming part of the mainstream, provided it’s practiced correctly and with your partner’s consent. And when it is, watch out, orgasm in sight!
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