The holidays are over and a new year begins. And a new year is sometimes a sign of renewal. It can even involve the wardrobe of Madam. So to spoil her and please her (and yourself), here are 10 tips for giving lingerie to a mature woman.
Mature women are more assertive in their choices and know what suits them. That’s why, to seduce them, you have to adapt your seduction technique, especially if you want to get a cougar. However, if you are already in a relationship with an experienced woman, it is time to shower her with gifts. Lingerie is a good idea, but you have to know how to choose it. Fortunately, I’m here to give you a way to do just that, so you can be sure to hit the bull’s eye and enjoy it too.
1 – Identify your size
As for the panties, easy. Just sneak a look at the label on your underwear. If you have a good eye, you might even be able to estimate it with a simple look. However, for the bra, two points are to be taken into account and are essential: the depth of the cup and the chest size. The first is the identification of a letter ranging from A for a small chest, to the letters E or F for the most generous breasts. The second, in the form of a number, measures the chest size in centimeters, which can range from 80 to 100 cm or more. The easiest way to know your measurements would be to discreetly go through your underwear drawer once again and see the size on one of the labels of a bra.
Plus, there’s another tip to know. If you’re in doubt, always go one size bigger than her pants size. Why? Two reasons. The mature woman will appreciate a lingerie that is easy to put on, that she can change in the store easily if it does not fit. She will also be flattered that you see her thinner than she is (and this works with all women). But don’t overdo it, take a size up, not 2 or 3!
2 – Think about your body type
While searching through the different models to please your cougar, you must also keep another important point in mind: her morphology. Indeed, many men find pieces of lingerie that they like and throw themselves on thinking to spoil the one of their heart, except that they forget to take into account the silhouette of Madam. And it is a disaster. Why is this a disaster? Because this aspect is extremely important because it will guarantee a good comfort while allowing to emphasize each curve of the loved one.
To help you, think about bra shapes. For example, a small to medium breast, you can opt for a very light triangle shape or on the contrary a push-up or ampliform model to raise and bring the breast closer. For a medium to full bust, you can opt for a balconette or a corbeille that will slightly lift the chest while making it look more plump. If, on the contrary, your mature woman has a generous or even voluminous chest, succumb to a more covering emboitant model that will guarantee a better support. A corbeille model can also be very suitable.
In any case, base yourself on the shape she usually wears if you want to be sure not to make a mistake.
For the bottom, the panty is suitable for all body types and all types of buttocks. The shorty is quite covering for the hips but it tends to break the small and thin silhouettes. The thong will have the advantage of enhancing a little more the buttocks with little relief. The tanga, finally, intermediate between the thong and the panties, it covers just half the buttocks while accentuating their roundness. It will sublimate the hips already well drawn.
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3 – Think about her skin and hair color
Once you have done the tour of the size and morphology, you must also take into account its skin and hair color. Indeed, pastel colors will stand out better on a black skin, for example, while a matte skin will be able to afford almost anything and a light skin will prefer soft and tender shades. In any case, avoid fluorescent colors for mature women, they are not teenagers anymore.
This goes hand in hand with hair color. Blonde will go better with pastel shades or cool colors. Redheads will go better with red, green or blue for example and brunettes will appreciate warm colors. And if her hair is gray … Find out by skin color or her lingerie drawer.
4 – Learn new vocabulary
Mastering the lexical field is a good thing if you want to get through the women’s lingerie jungle unscathed. I’ll give you a few basics so you can understand what we’re talking about.
Underwires, also known as whalebones, are the rigid pieces of iron that outline the cups of bras. They offer a good support to the chest.
The garter belt is the accessory of choice for slimming the figure. Many mature women like it when it comes to seduction to display a wasp waist. Moreover, the garter belt has the enormous advantage of grouping in one piece the bra, the bustier and the garter belt.
The garter belt, big male fantasy because it adds a touch of femininity to the silhouette, is usually worn on the hips as a belt, with ribbons and small clips to hold the stockings.
5 – Lingerie for a new relationship
When you start a new relationship, it’s a good idea to limit your risk-taking. Go for a safe bet where you are sure to satisfy her. It might seem a little daring and create some discomfort to select an ultra sexy set. While trying to find a model that will perfectly fit her personality, think above all about her comfort.
In the classics, we have the wise and sexy nightie or the bodysuit that can be worn in all circumstances under his clothes. These two options remain timeless and chic while revealing despite everything, a little bit of lace here and there. By starting from this base, and that you made match, you will be able to make evolve these last ones with a little more extravagance. Win-win.
6 – Lingerie for a stable relationship
You have been in a relationship for a while. You’re past the first encounters, the first gifts and the first potential pitfalls. So you can think about sexier lingerie for your mature woman, as long as it suits her tastes. So stay in the elegance and refinement. Indeed, there is little chance that she will appreciate complicated sets that make her look like a porn actress.
Try your luck with a set, so top and bottom will match. If the budget allows, opt for two bottoms: a pair of panties or classic boxers and a thong or tanga with a little less coverage. Afterwards, if you’re not sure, you can always stick to the classics like the nightie or the bodysuit, but you’ll have to play with naughty details like lace, transparency, beads, etc.
7 – Lingerie for a lasting relationship
You and your partner have a long history. You know each other, your bodies and your tastes well. But putting a little novelty in this long-lasting relationship can spice up the libido a bit. Here, a little provocative lingerie is allowed (as long as it remains elegant). However, you will have to take into account all the points mentioned above, mistakes are not allowed.
To get started, start with a sexy set with the opening bra, the split thong, the nippies (or nipple covers) for example. If you haven’t already done so, bring out the garter belt and your milf or cougar should like it, as long as the lingerie set matches.
8 – Underwear for special occasions
The mature woman will always appreciate the little attentions and to be spoiled for the big occasions. Find the piece of lingerie that will enhance her figure and make you get a hard-on like a donkey at the same time. And find yourself a nice pair of underpants, just to mark the occasion. And if you match, it’s even better.
9 – The right place, the right time
The pleasure of giving must be prepared. You are not going to throw the package between two slices of toast in the morning, or on the bus in the afternoon. No, no, no. That would ruin all your efforts. Avoid also the macho or heavy remarks. Do things right. Think of a nice place, at the right time, like around a nice dinner for two in a discreet corner for example. Avoid being out in the open, where people can see you, a little privacy is required. In general, to be sure to take advantage of the moment, choose a calm moment favorable to a possible approach.
10 – Take your time to undress her
The best moment for each one… Yes because let us admit it, this beautiful set of lingerie, it is for you two in reality. Finally, it is a little gift that you make to yourself. After having made the tour of the lingerie stores, hesitated 15 minutes in front of three models, then doubted between an 85B or a 90B, the moment has come to savor its triumph. No more fantasies, long live reality. So take your time, undress her like a delicate flower. Enjoy the curves of her body, flatter her. This will only increase the erotic effect for everyone. And then, what woman, mature or not, would not appreciate this naughty moment? So enjoy it together.
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